Thoughts on "Don't Date Him Girl.com"

When it comes to men, how much longer can we as women humiliate ourselves over childish games that our men play on us? How much longer can we hang around standing by our significant other while he's off and running behind our backs? How much longer can we as WOMEN, foolishly support our boyfriends/husbands while they are off having their fun?

According to the new website service, women now have a cost effective weapon in the war on cheating. It's a free service that allows "sisters" to share their experiences with cheating men by posting pictures and other information about them to warn other women about a cheating man.

If you want to find out about a possible cheater, all you have to do is log in, type the cheaters name into the database and watch as the search engine runs through hundreds of pictures and profiles until your match has been found. Simple and fun, huh!

I decided to have a little fun with this to see what it was all about. Once you log in past all of the "I Agree with the terms" jargon, you go to the top where it says "Find a Cheater". From there you are awarded hundreds of "cheater" profiles. First on the list is a man from Orlando (I'll refrain from using names). It claims that they dated for 8 years and she found his profile and photo on a swingers site. Another profile I came up with was a man from New Jersey. The woman who posted claims that he is older than he claims to be, has children that he doesn't own up to, has bad credit, will sweet talk you so he can live off your money, etc...you get the point.

My personal favorite was when Eric Benet's profile came up. You know Eric Benet, don't you? Ex-husband of acctress Halle Berry, who by most accounts, cheated on her. Seems fitting that he would wind up on this site. I wonder if Ms. Berry posted this herself. One can only wonder.

Well, here is the part where I give my opinion on this website. I will not say that it a bad idea for a site. Someone obviously put some thought into it and may or may not have had the best interest of the women in mind. My feeling is this. Ladies, and mind you, this is coming from a women who has had her fair share of cheaters. So, from one woman to another, MOVE ON!

This is just extra time, energy and effort being put into some loser that broke your heart. If a guy cheats on you, he's not worth it. Why waste time on him and his memory by sitting around posting pictures and stories online. MOVE ON! The best way of getting back at someone is by not paying them any mind. Find someone worthy of your time and energy. If not, you will end up prolonging the agony, and become resentful and bitter.

So, if you are serious about a new guy but are not sure if he's a cheater, look him up on don't date him girl. com . If you are just looking for a laugh, then go check out the hundreds of silly bastards that managed to tick off their girlfriends to the point that they posted a photo of them with their story.